Two people who love each other can solve a lot of problems quickly. Our experience of couples counseling is that it is usually brief, impactful and of enormous benefit. Getting the love we want can bring breakthrough good feelings and experiences of life at it’s fullest. Partnerships and families require great patience and discipline, the delay of gratification and nurturance and maintenance of the parental bond. Without care and vigilance, we may drift from those we love in the hectic pace of daily living. Intimacy is a learned skill and for many, one that is not easily found.