Managing Attention Deficit Disorder/Hyperactivity Disorder can bring relief to relationships quickly.  ADD/HD is believed to be a very real neurological condition resulting from the failure of the developing brain to “prune” itself as it matures. Someone suffering from this condition will find concentration and focus difficult and may be unable to control impulses. This can lead to learning disorders, substance abuse and infidelity and bring on excessive anxiety, depression and low self esteem if poorly addressed.